Thanks to a certain old flame of mine I'm now the proud owner of a burnt copy of the new gravy train!!!! DVD, 'stame the batch'. It's a fantastic DVD, full of live bits, band stuff and the cool video for 'ghoost boobs'. I'm a bit addicted to it, poor Stephen has had to put up with watching it everytime he has seen me, bless him.

Stephen is my boyfriend or 'you great hunk o' spunk' as I like call him in a kath & kim stylee. He's a really great guy and I miss him heaps as he lives up in Norwich. Recently I sometimes forget that I'm in a relationship. I've spent so much time in the last two and a half years being single and the fact that I wasn't even looking for a boyfriend when I met Stephen makes it all a little surreal somehow. I'm not complaining at all, I feel that my love life has been pretty poor since G2 and I broke up so it's nice that my lovelife has improved dramatically.

I did meet two very cool guys in Australia who rocked my world but I was never going to stay out there. It did give me confidence, however, that I do meet guys I like and that sometimes they like me back. Jesus, that sounds pathetic and I don't mean to. I am, in retrospect, a lucky person. At 27, I've alreeady fallen in love once and been in loved in return albeit in a less than perfect way. Still, I wouldn't change it.

So, meeting Stephen has been wonderful. He's a revelation in fact! He not only tolerates my obsessions (bis, harry potter, gravy train!!!! smut etc etc) but actively encourages them. He laughs at me and makes me laugh at the same time. He has a naturally open demeanour which is sweetly endearing and he never feels shy in being affectionate and talking about how he feels. All very odd! He also calls when he says he will and doesn't seem to play the silly relationship games so many of us do. He's also taking tae kwon do (I have no idea how to spell that!) so he kicks ass too! 'Here's to you Kell and to my sexual urge!' (Sorry, sad kath & kim in-joke between Stephen and I)

Living with Sandeep is as loud, fun and boisterous as I thought it would be. We are the biggest gay boys in the block I'm sure but, surprisingly, we haven't clashed in the bathroom. We have already spent many, many weekend evening getting trashed, dancing around the flat and taking nonsense photos with my digital camera.

Our flatwarming party is just under a fortnight away and it's going to go off I'm sure. Between us we know quite a lot of people so it will be an interesting mix of people. The theme is 'trash', I'm veering toward britney/justin trailer trash and Sandeep is veering towards too kool for skool trash, which just means chavvy but trendy really!

As long as DJ cock (aka richard) plays 'you made me gay' I'll be happy!